Comments on: R Kelley speaks whats on my mind http://www.dellanave.com/blog/2007/10/31/r-kelley-speaks-whats-on-my-mind/ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:00:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: ShandyKing http://www.dellanave.com/blog/2007/10/31/r-kelley-speaks-whats-on-my-mind/comment-page-1/#comment-329 ShandyKing Wed, 31 Oct 2007 22:41:19 +0000 http://www.dellanave.com/blog/2007/10/31/r-kelly-speaks-whats-on-my-mind/#comment-329 Yes, RK is right on about her post. Funny thing is the two of us were just chatting about the small talk thing. When I first thought about it I was sort of ticked off for the hit and run IM's with no chitchat. But the small talk just to get dugg drives me even more crazy. "Hey Shandy, how's your grandma.. everything going ok?" "Hey man.. she passed away 2 decades ago". "Oh sorry, hey can you digg this for me?" There are a few friends who I don't mind digging for as I know what they are up to. By digging on their behalf I know how I am helping them out. I really hate digging for people who I have no idea what their up to. It's not like I am even on digg when people IM me. So, I have to stop what I am doing, log into Digg and then hit their stuff up. We've just become virtual employees for their social community. Yes, RK is right on about her post. Funny thing is the two of us were just chatting about the small talk thing. When I first thought about it I was sort of ticked off for the hit and run IM’s with no chitchat.

But the small talk just to get dugg drives me even more crazy. “Hey Shandy, how’s your grandma.. everything going ok?” “Hey man.. she passed away 2 decades ago”. “Oh sorry, hey can you digg this for me?”

There are a few friends who I don’t mind digging for as I know what they are up to. By digging on their behalf I know how I am helping them out. I really hate digging for people who I have no idea what their up to.

It’s not like I am even on digg when people IM me. So, I have to stop what I am doing, log into Digg and then hit their stuff up.
We’ve just become virtual employees for their social community.

]]> By: Rebecca Kelley http://www.dellanave.com/blog/2007/10/31/r-kelley-speaks-whats-on-my-mind/comment-page-1/#comment-330 Rebecca Kelley Wed, 31 Oct 2007 20:56:26 +0000 http://www.dellanave.com/blog/2007/10/31/r-kelly-speaks-whats-on-my-mind/#comment-330 I agree with you in that it's almost worse to have the vapid small talk first, because you just know the dude's only throwing it in there so he doesn't seem like a selfish a-hole who's only asking you for a vote...even though that's exactly what he's doing. I agree with you in that it’s almost worse to have the vapid small talk first, because you just know the dude’s only throwing it in there so he doesn’t seem like a selfish a-hole who’s only asking you for a vote…even though that’s exactly what he’s doing.

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